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Callin’ It A ‘Cade

Posted by IR on December 31, 2009

Apparently we are going to turn the lights out on a decade tonight. As you may know I personally find September to serve as a more appropriate annual turn-over point, but everybody loves the neatness of numbers and lists, so at the end of 2009, at the end of a decade we’ll do a quick reflection – certainly not conclusive or complete.

A few nights ago it was posed to a group I was with: what single world event had the most impact on my personal life in the past decade? It remains 9/11. Foremost was the emotional impact that reverberated through the world; a host of different emotions filled the world, and no sentient person could have avoided being impacted in some way. Then the repercussions for many personal lives that were not actually directly involved in the event. Every time I, or anyone else I know travels, their experiences have been altered by that event. A nouveau lexicon that everyone uses emerged in both political and popular culture as a result. Canada has made the choice in this decade to spend billions of dollars in Afghanistan. This post is not to make a decision on the rights or wrongs of that decision, just to recognize that those billions in turn effected domestic decisions that in turn effected every Canadian’s personal life, including mine. Much more importantly, with four new deaths today, and one journalist also being killed, on the very last day of this decade, 138 Canadian soldiers lost their lives in Afghanistan in the 2000′s, thus bringing back a more personal nature of veterans and Remembrance Day. All of these factors, and many more came as a result of 9/11.

Time magazine recently called this first decade of the 21st Century to be a complete downer in comparison to the last of the 20th. While there were certainly a host of world events, and many notable U.S. events that led them to make that call, I don’t share the same pessimistic view overall. Although there is credence for some sober reflection when climate change, war, poverty, disease, and the economy is considered, I look back and see a lot of positive events in the past decade, and look forward with hope, as does the same article.

There are some great organizations doing some amazing things to fight what I believe to be one of our most important global battles: overcoming poverty. Kiva, Oxfam, Make Poverty History, and so many more have really grown in this past decade. I believe that most of us have become more worldly, and environmentally aware in the last 10 years and that is a good thing. The advances we have made in health care, and the support and awareness for causes like AIDS, prostate cancer and breast cancer have grown in leaps and bounds. The progression in Education, particularly educational tools and technology has been incredible. The list of positive highlights and changes could go on depending on your penchant for popular culture, sports, politics, literature, music, or any area.

While each of us personally dealt with sadness and there were those who left us in the past decade, it was also one filled with births, and with partners confirming their love. I smile when I think of some personal events of the preceding ten years, and many of them are just simple, yet joyful events, spent with family and friends that I care about. I hope that you can look back and smile as well.

In the next ten years we’re going to face some challenges, some of which are unpredictable at this point. While we’ve made progress in the areas I mentioned above, there is still a long, long way to go in each of these and with many other causes. Whether they be global, local, or personal, please remember that you are not in this alone so long as you strengthen the ties of your relationships. We’ll have hope and joy in the next 10 years if we work on our peace and love. I know that those four words seem airy fairy to some of you, but maybe you just haven’t thought deeply about what those words actually mean, for they are not just words, there are meanings, signs, and tools within each of them. It is up to you and those closest to you to get into those meanings, signs and tools for yourself though. Be open to those around you when they need you, and be ready to turn for help when you need it.

Finally, I think back on the past decade and I am bombarded with images and amazing deeds of the awesome people I call family and friends. I must be the most fortunate person alive to know so many incredible people that have done so many incredible things in the past 10 years – personal and worldly – in the areas of family, community-building, social-work, health-care, education, journalism, literature, writing, photography, music, film, politics, sport, travel, and charity. The list could go on, for I am actually beyond fortunate to know amazing people in so many areas, and that they make the choice to include me in their incredible lives. It actually makes my head hurt just a little bit to think about what so many of you have accomplished. ;-) Keep it going!

We’ll let the Kings of Leon, and then David Gray take us out then. With KoL we recognize how uber successful one can become, even in a relatively short period of time, and it’s a bit of a tune about sticking together. Then with Gray we have a tune that might seem like a downer, but it’s actually about hope and going forwards. It’s also one of my all time fav’s.

“Through the windows of midnight, all moanfoam and silver.”

Take care, take care of each other…. Bonne Année!!

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Happy Christmas

Posted by IR on December 24, 2009

HopeIn thoughts, or in person, may you be with those you care about, and celebrate what is important to you.

Peace, Hope, Joy and Love.

These are not just words. They can be our lives.

Wishing that Peace, Hope, Joy and Love be yours, and all of ours in this season and in the year ahead.

Christmas Baker

Joyeux Noël – Merry Christmas – 즐거운 성탄

-IR

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IR’s 2009 Christmas Playlist: A Christmasland Fairytale

Posted by IR on December 23, 2009

For the past four or five years I have compiled a Christmas time compilation to either give, or just to have as a playlist during errands, decorations, and seasonal gatherings. Yet mainly it serves for the chill out times at Christmas – times we need more of. Thus, to help with the chill-out times, here’s this year’s playlist. A song makes the list because it fits two or more of the following criteria: Has been a popular song in the preceding year. Is musically meaningful to someone, or some people I’ve interacted with lately. Is tied to a memorable event from the past year. Could be trying to send a message – but not always what appears to be the obvious one. Is a Christmas song. Is a popular artist actually doing a good job at a traditional Christmas song. Is by an artist I think you should hear more of. Just fits as a cool song.

As usual, Vince Guaraldi appears, but other artists that have made previous lists are Death Cab for Cutie, Pearl Jam, The Killers, David Gray, and at least the music of Kings of Leon. Any favourites from the ones below? What songs would you put on your end of 2009 playlist?

A Christmasland Fairytale

1. Hark, the Herald Angels Sing – The Choir of St. Peter’s
2. A Dustland Fairytale – The Killers
3. Don’t Stop Believin’(Piano Tribute) –  Piano Tribute Players
4. Geraldine – Glasvegas
5. 16, Maybe Less – Calexico and Iron & Wine
6. Wavin’ Flag – K’naan
7. I and Love and You – The Avett Brothers
8. Love Is the Answer – Weezer
9. Intergalactic – Beastie Boys
10. Just Breathe – Pearl Jam
11. Silent Night – Susan Boyle
12. The Crane Wife 3 – The Decemberists
13. Draw the Line – David Gray
14. Last Parade – Matthew Good
15. Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas – Coldplay
16. Use Somebody (Piano Tribute) – Piano Tribute Conservatory
17. The New Year – Death Cab For Cutie
18. Hark! The Herald Angels Sing – Vince Guaraldi Trio

Bonus Track: Christmastime Is Here (Instrumental) – Vince Guaraldi Trio

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Philosophawesomeness Writing

Posted by IR on December 9, 2009

The conclusion of The Republic:

“And so, Glaucon, the tale was saved from perishing; and if we will listen, it may save us, and all will be well when we cross the river of Lethe. Also we shall not defile our souls; but, if you will believe me that the soul is immortal and able to endure all good and ill, we shall keep always to the upward way and in all things pursue justice with the help of wisdom. Then we shall be at peace with Heaven and with ourselves, both during our sojourn here and when, like victors in the Games collecting gifts from their friends, we receive the prize of justice; and so, not here only, but in the journey of a thousand years of which I have told you, we shall fare well.” – Plato, 380 BCE.

It is with these words that Plato draws to a close one of the greatest works of all time. I mean, honestly, who writes like this? If I could write half as well as this I certainly would not be left wanting, as am I tonight, as I look back on a piece that I’ve written for submission tomorrow. We rush through our thoughts and don’t realize that in so doing, they are likely someone elses. If we try to put them into print too often we butcher it and leave it without substance.

If nothing else I’m a better person for having read the above, and guess what? Now so are you! In the end, you just gotta let it go, man, let ‘er go. That’s what I’ve done, and I’m more than happy to be done with it.

I like wisdom. I like justice. I say let’s go for it, and I do believe “we shall fare well.” I smile. :-) Shall we start the holidays?

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